You have to have a higher power that you believe in. Because if you believe that you can conquer this on your own, you are going to go nuts. So you have to believe, I don't know if it's Buddha, it's God, it's Jesus, I don't care who it is, you have to believe that someone else is in control of this, so when these opportunities do come, you know that they made the way. When they don't come, they're protecting you from something that you shouldn't be in. It's not about you.